Hey every one, how are you today and how is the communication with your children.
Did you apply practical actions in the last posts, I hope you did.
Today I am going to tell you some more practical actions to help you.
But remember you have to apply them, they will not be applied by just reading them, take action and try to do if not all of them at least some of them.
5- It is better to correct the mistakes of the children not by shouting at them.
But by letting them be with you, let them sit in your lap and then slowly pop up with a story to let them know what mistake they had committed and how they must correct it.
6- Try to be good yourself first.
And then try to teach these things to the kids because any kind of inconsistency in your personality will be easily recorded by the receptive minds of the children and they will also learn the art of deception with time.
7- Politeness, good reasoning skills, well groomed body language etc.
These attitudes are picked by the children by observing their parents and people who are present in their environment. These come all by themselves and no special sessions are needed. Still the children need proper monitoring by their parents and loving explanations to correct them if some flaws are present.
8- It is advisable that parents do not indulge in any kind of fights in front of the kids.
That is to keep them away from learning this act. Children learn to appreciate peace and harmony only when we create an environment of that kind ourselves in the house.
9- Parents have to have total involvement with the kids.
Because they won’t accept you at your own will; they have their right to exercise their choice and freedom. At the same time it must be remembered that they are fragile and need utmost care and attention.
10- Small jobs can be assigned to them with time and a sense of responsibility can be slowly inculcated among them.
11- Pampering to a certain degree is necessary because children need special attention at times.
12- Do not impose your thought patterns on them.
Let them pick up what suits them the best. After all, all of us are unique creations of nature. These implicit norms apply to teachers also who are equally responsible for shaping the personalities of the children.
In the case of children the sphere of influence must be unique that is it must be filled with affection and soft feelings where they feel nurtured and safe. Try to become a child to connect with them. They would find your presence welcome. Children understand the language of love not force. Send love and receive love. You will receive the strongest current of love form kids. Try it yourself and relish the experience.
Happy Parenting and child mentoring.